The definition of recovery is to return to a normal state of mind and strength. Since I started on the road to overcoming my sexual abuse 8 years ago I have worked tirelessly toward obtaining that recovered stage. During this time I have felt weak, emasculated, shame, strong, empowered, angry, confused and sometimes I felt… Continue reading Fear is my Strength
Learning to Forgive
We can find reasons to forgive people because at some point we will need forgiveness. Usually, when the person who has injured us shows contrition for their actions it becomes easier. In showing contrition the person is telling us they have learned from the experience and through self-reflection realize their own errors. This is important… Continue reading Learning to Forgive
Not my Secret to Keep
Not my secret to keep... For years I have tried to find out how people heal and move on from shame. In my search I have learned that people heal in different ways and on different timetables. As individuals, we will never find a blue print that will work for everyone. However, telling my story… Continue reading Not my Secret to Keep
We Fall We Rise 